Unique Morning Ritual: Kids Visit Great-Grandma on the Way to School

Dec 10, 2024 at 3:00 AM
Step inside Marilyn Bruggeman's apartment and it becomes immediately evident that family holds a cherished place in her heart. This was her Christmas present - a larger-than-life picture of three of her great-grandchildren printed on her bedspread. The blanket was a thoughtful gift from 7-year-old Maverick, 5-year-old Reese, and 2-year-old Brandon. But their connection goes beyond the holiday season. While Marilyn begins her day surrounded by her grandkids' artwork, a black sedan is already on its way.

Highlight of the Morning

Rachael Tschida, the assisted living director at Pleasant Vista Senior Living Community where Marilyn resides, shares, "It's a highlight of our morning." Rachael and her co-workers sit by their office windows, eagerly awaiting Marilyn to slide open her patio door as the car carrying Maverick and Reese pulls up in front of her. "Hi, Great Grammie!" Maverick shouts through the rear window. "Have a good day, I love you." Marilyn responds from her patio with a warm "Good morning!"

Seeing the Elementary School

From her building, Marilyn has a clear view of her great-grandkids' elementary school. Three years ago, Marilyn's grandson, Brian Bruggeman, had a simple thought: Why not? This simple decision led to these weekly "drive-hi" visits, which have become an integral part of Marilyn's life. These visits not only bring joy to Marilyn but also strengthen the bond between generations. The sight of her great-grandkids in the car and the sound of their voices through the window is a moment that she looks forward to every week. It shows the power of family and how even in the later years of life, these connections can bring so much happiness.

The Impact on Marilyn

Marilyn's face lights up when she sees her great-grandkids approaching. These visits give her a sense of purpose and belonging. She often shares stories about her own childhood and the values she holds dear with her grandkids. The conversations and interactions during these "drive-hi" visits are not just about catching up but also about passing on wisdom and love. It's a two-way street where Marilyn gives and receives just as much as her great-grandkids do. These weekly visits have become a source of strength for Marilyn, helping her to stay connected and engaged with the world around her.

The Significance of Family

Family is at the core of Marilyn's life. These "drive-hi" visits are a tangible example of how family can bring comfort and happiness in the later years. They show that no matter how old one gets, the love and support of family members are always there. Marilyn's story is a reminder that family bonds are precious and should be nurtured and cherished. It's not just about the presents or the gestures but about the time spent together and the memories created. These weekly "drive-hi" visits are a beautiful testament to the power of family.