In Madison, Wisconsin, the Wisconsin Department of Justice (DOJ) Office of School Safety (OSS) and the Office of Crime Victim Services (OCVS) have stepped forward to provide essential resources for families in the wake of the tragic school shooting. On December 16th, a 15-year-old female student, identified as Natalie “Samantha” Rupnow, took the lives of another teenage student and a teacher. The shooter herself also lost her life. Six others were rushed to the hospital with injuries varying from minor to life-threatening, as reported by the police.

Wisconsin Attorney General's Words of Condolence

Wisconsin Attorney General Josh Kaul expressed his deep sorrow for the students, teachers, staff members, and families affected by this devastating mass shooting. He emphasized that no one should have to endure such a horrifying event. The Office of School Safety is dedicated to offering support and aiding the community in the recovery process. His thoughts and condolences go out to every family impacted by this tragedy.

Guidance for Parents from OSS

When it comes to talking to children about the Monday's tragedy, OSS has offered valuable tips. Firstly, it is crucial to limit children's exposure to graphic media as they take cues from adults. Managing one's own stress openly is also important as children observe. Shielding children from adult worries allows them to remain children. Secondly, making time to have the conversation is essential but should not be forced. Looking for signs that the child wants to talk and choosing calm moments like in the car, during dinner, or while engaging in calming activities are key. Finally, letting the child's questions guide the conversation shows that their concerns are taken seriously.

Details on How to Navigate the Crisis with Kids

When navigating a crisis with kids, providing clear, factual information without graphic details is vital. Showing empathy and validating the child's feelings helps them process the situation. Reassuring them about safety and encouraging ongoing conversation builds their sense of security. Listening attentively, validating their emotions, and taking their concerns seriously create a safe space for them to express themselves.

Approaches to Starting the Conversation with Children

Starting the conversation with children requires patience and understanding. Making time for them without forcing it allows them to open up at their own pace. Looking for those subtle signs that they are ready to talk and choosing the right moment, such as during calming activities, can make the conversation more effective. Letting the child lead the way with their questions ensures that their perspective is heard and respected.