Sex Therapists Reveal the Most Intense Orgasm Type & How to Achieve It

Dec 5, 2024 at 11:00 AM
After a bit of sexual exploration, it becomes evident that there are numerous ways to reach an orgasm. The cervix, G-spot, clitoris, and anus, along with their nerve endings, can all be stimulated. Some individuals even find that they can achieve orgasm through fantasy, focused breathing, or having non-genital areas touched. Thus, the possibilities for orgasm are truly endless.

Discover the Intensity of Blended Orgasms

Clitoral-G-Spot Blended Orgasm

Clitoral and vaginal (or "G-spot") orgasms are the most frequently encountered form of blended orgasm. Technically, both the outer clitoris and internal G-spot are part of the larger clitoral network. Whether they are distinct erogenous zones is a matter of debate. However, if the combination of stimulation leads to a more intense orgasm for you, then by all means, explore and blend away.

For those with vulvas, this combination often provides a powerful and pleasurable experience. The stimulation of these two areas can create a symphony of sensations that lead to a heightened state of arousal and ultimate orgasm.

Blended Anal Orgasm

Blending the stimulation of the clitoris and anus can result in an incredibly intense orgasm. Both spots are rich in nerve endings, and when combined, the intensity can be multiplied. "Having an orgasm with clitoral stimulation and anal stimulation can increase the intensity of the orgasm - it's like going from a five out of ten to a ten out of ten or even a fifteen out of ten," explains Britney Blair, PsyD.

This combination allows for a unique exploration of pleasure, pushing the boundaries and taking the orgasm experience to new heights.

Blended Cervical Orgasm

If cervical stimulation is your path to climax, try combining it with external clitoral stimulation. Since the cervix is located deeper in the body than the G-spot, it is best achieved with a long toy or a partner's penis or strap-on rather than fingers. This combination can create a powerful and intense orgasm that is truly unforgettable.

The depth and intensity of the cervical stimulation combined with the external clitoral stimulation can lead to a sensory explosion that leaves you breathless.

Blended Nipple Orgasm

A blended nipple orgasm may be a bit more challenging to achieve compared to the other routes. It is not one of the more commonly reported erogenous zones for orgasm. However, if you already enjoy nipple stimulation, achieving a blended nipple orgasm is entirely possible.

Use your hands or a partner's to explore and stimulate the nipples, or reach for your favorite nipple toy. The possibilities for pleasure are endless, and this exploration can lead to new and exciting experiences.

Experiment with your erogenous zones and focus on arousal rather than reaching an orgasm immediately. Take your time to explore your body and discover what feels good. Remember, the journey is just as important as the destination.

Using sex toys can also enhance the exploration of blended orgasms. Reach for your favorite vibrator, nipple stimulators, butt plugs, or any other toys that bring you pleasure. Lube can help reduce friction and make the experience more comfortable and enjoyable.

Try different partnered positions to facilitate dual stimulation. For example, the cowgirl position allows the receiver to stimulate the clitoris while also experiencing internal penetration. Reverse cowgirl is great for an anal-clitoral orgasm, with one person stimulating the clitoris while being penetrated anally.

Doggy style is ideal for a clitoral and cervical orgasm, as the cervix gets "bumped the most" in this position. The person receiving penetration can stimulate the clitoris with a hand or toy while their partner provides the necessary stimulation.

When exploring blended orgasms, focus on pleasure instead of pressure. Pressuring yourself to achieve a specific goal will only make it harder. Approach the exploration with a curious mindset and the intention of feeling pleasure.

If you don't have a blended orgasm on the first try, don't be discouraged. This is a new experience that requires practice and exploration. Be patient, have fun, and enjoy the process of experimentation.

The feeling of a blended orgasm varies from person to person. It may feel more intense or prolonged than a baseline climax. You may feel the climax in multiple parts of your body, such as in the hips during anal stimulation or in the breasts during nipple stimulation.

The ultimate goal of exploring blended orgasms is to understand the capabilities of your own body and enjoy the incredible benefits of pleasure. Happy blending!

Meet the Experts: Britney Blair, PsyD, is a clinical psychologist, AASECT-certified sex therapist, and co-founder of the sex therapy app Lover. Holly Richmond, PhD, LMFT, is a certified sex therapist, associate director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, and author of Reclaiming Pleasure. Rachel Needle, PsyD, is a licensed psychologist in Florida and co-director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.

Halle Newman is a freelance journalist and copywriter based in New York City. When she's not writing, she's strolling through Central Park with a matcha or trying out a new dance class.