Following the sudden announcement of their breakup, Rachael Kirkconnell has shared her emotional response and reflections on the end of her four-year relationship with Matt James. In a candid interview on Call Her Daddy, she revealed the shock and confusion she felt when learning about the split via Instagram while on a flight. Additionally, she discussed the couple's previous discussions about marriage and the reasons behind their incompatibility.

The Shocking Revelation: Learning of the Breakup Mid-Flight

Kirkconnell detailed the moment she discovered the news of their breakup while en route to her destination. The unexpected nature of the announcement left her feeling blindsided and overwhelmed. Without access to social media for several hours, she was forced to process the situation alone, adding to her distress.

During her appearance on Call Her Daddy, Rachael described the moment she saw Matt James' post as the plane was taking off. She explained how the news hit her hard, especially since she had no prior indication that the relationship was in trouble. “I don’t have any service or anything for the next 12 hours, so I’m freaking out because, you know, just got broken up with, and now, a few hours later, it’s for the whole world to see and I’m still trying to process it,” she said. This public disclosure added another layer of complexity to an already difficult situation, making it challenging for her to respond immediately. Kirkconnell emphasized that she is still in shock and is processing the breakup like everyone else, choosing to protect her peace and mental well-being before making any public statements.

Reflecting on the Relationship: Marriage Talks and Incompatibility Issues

Beyond the immediate shock of the breakup, Kirkconnell also reflected on the couple's past discussions about their future together. Despite the surprise of the split, she mentioned that they had been on the same page regarding marriage and even talked about rings. However, deeper issues of compatibility ultimately led to their decision to part ways.

According to Kirkconnell, conversations about marriage were a significant part of their relationship. She recalled that James had encouraged her to start thinking about engagement details a few months ago. Yet, despite these plans, James expressed concerns about certain qualities that he worried would not be suitable in a wife. Accountability and communication were highlighted as key areas where they faced challenges. “There were just qualities about me that he worries about having in a wife. Like at the end of the day, there are things that we aren’t compatible with. And the whole accountability and saying sorry and all that was really the main thing,” she explained. This revelation sheds light on the underlying issues that contributed to their breakup, indicating that while they may have shared a common goal, fundamental differences eventually became insurmountable. Kirkconnell also confirmed that there is no chance of reconciliation, emphasizing that the chapter has closed for good.