The Fading Allure of Love-Themed Celebrations in China: A Shift in Consumer Behavior and Marketing Strategies

Nov 11, 2025 at 5:30 AM
Chinese consumers, previously enthusiastic about love-themed festivities such as Valentine's Day, the unofficial Cyber-Valentine's Day (520), and the culturally rich Qixi, are now exhibiting a noticeable decline in their zeal for these romantic celebrations.

Navigating the Evolving Landscape of Romance and Retail in China

The Diminishing Spark of Romantic Observances in China

In recent years, the once-powerful appeal of love-centric festivals in China has considerably waned. What were once reliable drivers for consumer spending, particularly on gifts, jewelry, and flowers, are now struggling to maintain their momentum. This shift presents a significant challenge for luxury brands, many of which have historically depended on these celebratory periods for substantial sales boosts since 2016, with Dior being a pioneer in launching targeted 520 campaigns in China.

Socio-Economic Dynamics Shaping Marital Trends and Consumer Choices

Official statistics reveal a dramatic decrease in marriage registrations in China, with numbers more than halved between 2014 and 2024. Concurrently, a growing segment of young people is embracing singlehood as a valid life choice rather than a temporary state. A 2024 survey indicated that a significant portion of Chinese university students either have little desire for a romantic partner (30.1%) or no desire at all (11.1%). This trend extends to older demographics, with 35 to 44-year-olds showing the highest rate of unwillingness to marry at 32.6%.

Underlying Factors: Economics, Social Contracts, and Self-Identity

According to Alexis Bonhomme, CEO of Trinity Asia, this decline is multi-faceted, stemming from economic challenges, evolving social contracts, and shifting self-definitions. The increasing cost of living, coupled with economic uncertainties and a weakening property market, has transformed marriage from a symbol of security into a potential financial burden for many under-35s. This economic anxiety, rather than romance, now often dictates life decisions for this demographic.

Redefining Female Empowerment and Consumption Patterns

Bonhomme highlights that educated young women are increasingly reconsidering traditional marital expectations, which often involve disproportionate responsibilities for childcare, eldercare, emotional labor, and financial contributions to housing. They are questioning the personal benefits of such arrangements. This reevaluation is mirrored in consumption habits, where conspicuous spending for status is losing its appeal among the middle-income segment. Many women are moving away from the 'marry well, consume more' paradigm, opting instead for self-investment in beauty, wellness, and jewelry as alternative forms of personal value and status.

The Evolution of Gifting and Social Marketing

The changing attitudes are reflected in gifting and social marketing. A report by Luxury Society, DLG, and Re-Hub observed a decrease in engagement with brand-generated content related to these holidays. However, user-generated content continues to thrive, indicating that consumers still discuss brands but are less responsive to traditional official campaigns. This suggests that love-themed festivals no longer guarantee strong returns through conventional marketing alone, as consumers increasingly drive their own narratives.

Flower Sales: A Nuanced Perspective

Despite the broader cooling, flower sales show an interesting paradox. Valentine's Day flower orders on the Meituan delivery app saw a 120% year-on-year increase in 2025, with flower and gift bundles rising over 200%, and creative bouquets by more than 270%. Yet, despite these impressive figures, there's a prevailing sense of routine and fatigue. Social media discussions often suggest that monetary gifts hold more emotional weight than traditional bouquets, indicating a more transactional view of these gestures.

Luxury Brands' Innovative Responses to Changing Romantic Rituals

Bonhomme notes that the transactional nature of 520 and Qixi has become more pronounced, with a focus on discounts and live-stream bundles, suggesting that brands can sell products but no longer 'naiveté.' In response to this shift, some luxury brands are creatively re-engaging with the concept of love. For its 2025 Qixi campaign, Tiffany & Co. launched a podcast series, "I, the Subject of Love," focusing on personal growth, self-awareness, and self-care, moving beyond traditional romantic partnership. Similarly, their short film, "I Am the Subject of Love," features ambassadors sharing insights on individuality and inner strength.

Loewe's Approach: Weaving Narrative and Emotion

Loewe also adapted its Qixi strategy with "Say Yes to Love," a five-episode micro-drama starring local talents, delving into themes of chance, choice, and fate, linked to their signature magpie charm. These campaigns exemplify a shift in love marketing, emphasizing emotion, autonomy, and diverse forms of connection over mere superficial gestures.

Redefining Love in a Modern Context

Ultimately, consumers haven't ceased to appreciate love, but they are asking deeper questions about its meaning, its relevance to their lives, and the authenticity of its rituals. They seek expressions of love that are quieter, more genuine, and more inclusive. Brands that embrace emotional honesty, celebrate the diversity of human relationships, and deliver aspirational yet grounded storytelling are poised to define the next chapter of romance in China's evolving market.