Navigating the Emotional Tides of Motherhood

Section 1: The Early Years - A Time of Innocence and Dedication

When I had my four children by the age of 24, I dedicated my life to being a mom and a wife. Those early years were filled with endless love and care. Watching my oldest grow from a tiny baby to a senior in high school is a journey I'll never forget. Each stage brought new joys and challenges, but it was all worth it.

As a health care worker, I balanced my career with raising my children. It was a tough juggling act, but I wouldn't have had it any other way. My children were my pride and joy, and I wanted to give them the best life possible.

Section 2: The Teen Years - Preparing for Independence

Now that my children are getting older, I find myself going through a grieving process. Time seems to be racing by at an incredible speed, and I can't help but feel sad as they grow up. My oldest just joined the military and will be leaving after her final year of high school. It's a bittersweet moment, knowing that she's ready to spread her wings and start a new chapter in her life.

As a mom, I take pride in being the best I can be for my children. I've taught them important life skills and values, and now it's time for them to use those skills to create their own futures. It's a difficult transition, but I know it's necessary.

Section 3: Dealing with Empty Nest Syndrome

People experience "empty nest syndrome" in different ways. For me, it's a mix of pride and sadness. I'm proud of the adults my children have become, but I also miss the little ones who used to run around the house. It's a strange feeling, but it's a part of the parenting journey.

Now that my children are older, I'm exploring activities that will enrich my own life. I'm taking up new hobbies, spending time with friends, and focusing on my career. It's important to take care of myself too, as a mom.

Dear Abby, founded by Abigail Van Buren (Jeanne Phillips) and her mother Pauline Phillips, offers valuable advice and support. Their website, www.DearAbby.com, and P.O. Box 69440 in Los Angeles, CA 90069, are great resources for moms going through similar experiences.