Parenting Pros: How John Legend and Chrissy Teigen Navigate the Challenges of Raising a Growing Family

In a candid interview with PEOPLE, acclaimed musician John Legend and his wife, the equally talented Chrissy Teigen, shed light on the joys and complexities of parenting their four children, offering insights that resonate with families everywhere.

Navigating the Ups and Downs of Parenting with Confidence and Ease

A Smoother Ride the Second Time Around

As their family has grown, John Legend and Chrissy Teigen have found that parenting their younger children, daughter Esti (19 months) and son Wren (14 months), has been a significantly less stressful experience compared to raising their older kids, daughter Luna (8) and son Miles (6). "We are definitely more relaxed in general, so we're not as stressed," Legend tells PEOPLE. "Even though you still have to do the work, none of it is as intimidating or worrying as it used to be. You're not nervous about it. You're like, 'I got this.'" The couple's experience with their older children has given them a newfound sense of confidence and assurance, allowing them to approach the challenges of parenting with a more levelheaded and composed mindset.

Embracing the Chaos with Enthusiasm

While caring for two toddlers under the age of 2 may seem daunting, Legend and Teigen have learned to embrace the whirlwind of activity. "They're so cute and interesting, and it's so interesting to see their personalities develop, but it is truly nonstop," Legend continues. "You've got to watch them every second." With both Esti and Wren now walking, the couple has had to be even more vigilant, requiring "all hands on deck" to ensure the little ones stay out of trouble. Despite the non-stop chaos, Legend and Teigen find joy in witnessing their children's growth and development, cherishing the opportunity to witness their unique personalities blossom.

Establishing Boundaries and Priorities

As their family has grown, Legend and Teigen have recognized the importance of setting clear boundaries to maintain a sense of balance and privacy. "I started locking the door," Legend reveals, speaking of his decision to put up boundaries with his brood. "Their big thing is they want to knock on our door and come sleep with us. I'm like, 'Y'all are not coming in our bed every time you have a little disturbance. Go back to sleep.'" While they dote on their children, the couple understands the necessity of carving out time for themselves, preserving the sanctity of their own space and relationship.

Navigating the Dynamics of a Growing Brood

With four children under their care, Legend and Teigen have observed the unique dynamics that emerge within their family. "Chrissy's everyone's favorite I think, except I might have Esti," the "All of Me" singer shares. "I think because she's at this space where she sees me leave now, and when I come back home, she's super clingy and she literally just wants to hug my leg and make sure I don't leave her." This observation highlights the nuanced and ever-evolving relationships between parents and their children, each child forging their own special bond with their loved ones.

Embracing the Joys and Challenges of Parenthood

Throughout their journey as parents, John Legend and Chrissy Teigen have weathered the ups and downs, navigating the complexities of raising a growing family with resilience, humor, and a deep commitment to their children's well-being. While the chaos of caring for four young kids can be daunting at times, the couple has found that their experience and newfound confidence have helped them approach the challenges with a more relaxed and assured mindset. By establishing boundaries, prioritizing their own relationship, and savoring the unique bonds they share with each child, Legend and Teigen have demonstrated that with a combination of adaptability, patience, and unwavering love, the parenting journey can be an incredibly rewarding and fulfilling experience.